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你在哪个城市呀?

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男人欣赏女人和女人欣赏女人不一样的。我虽然没看到照片，但是相信LZ一定漂亮很多。其实有时人就是心理效应，你不跟大家说你是整容的就没有那么多人说七七八八了

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This mother is PROUD of her son for standing up to bullies, I would imaging a good number of Chinese parents will say to their kid:
"Don't be so stupid and stand up for others, what do you get from this? Keep your head down and avoid trouble." That's why there's a prevailing slave mentality amongst some Chinese.

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很多有都有过忧郁期，同性恋人由于遭受社会的偏见和歧视，遭受忧郁困扰的比较普遍。有可能持续几年，几十年，一生。消除社会偏见和培养自身的强大心理都很重要。

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I've also been vocal as hell about the issue of gay marriage so you can take your "I know of no other NFL player who has done what Mr. Ayanbadejo is doing" and shove it in your close-minded, totally lacking in empathy piehole and choke on it. Asshole.

这句话我在FreeOZ上也经常遇到啊。

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解释不解释，怎么解释要看你了，你是怎么给你家孩子解释公主和王子到底干嘛的呢？被一提到同性恋你就想到性交，理智一点行不行？

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http://www.mamamia.com.au/news/why-the-acl-are-dangerous/

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http://www.abc.net.au/unleashed/4248444.html

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1、单妹妹名气大的吓人，很多人认为我写力不足，精华水分很大，所以我特地搜索她的17个精华来看

2、这篇也是精华，奇怪炸了楼精华还没去掉

3、发现她的几篇原创精华帖，都是以图片和一点评价组成，所以就一个一个看下去了

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我眼中的射手: 大方, 潇洒, 喜欢到处找人聊天, 不喜欢受限制,
缺点: 脾气太臭, 不会哄女孩子,

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金毛吼说第二，没人敢说第一

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维基百科，自由的百科全书
自1979年伊朗伊斯兰革命以后，伊朗采取了强硬的措施来杜绝同性恋现象。根据《伊斯兰法》，同性恋的行为是非法和有罪的。不過，對於男同性戀行為及女同性戀行為，伊朗的法律卻有不對等程度的懲罰。
目录  [隐藏]
1 男同性戀行為
2 女同性戀行為
3 参见
4 参考资料
5 外部連結
[编辑]男同性戀行為

在伊朗，男同性戀行為會根據沙里亞法規來處罰。根据伊朗的《刑法》110条，同性恋是非法的。成年的男同性戀行為的违法者会面临死刑的处决，而未成年的亦會受到74次鞭打。有报告指出，在伊朗，常用来处死同性恋者的刑法包括绞刑、砍头和石刑。甚至一些很小的犯罪行为也会引致严重的刑法，例如触摸大腿会受到100次鞭打，而重复触犯四次将会面临死刑的惩处。
2005年，伊朗以绞刑处死两名未成年男子的做法引发国际社会的强烈反应。伊朗当局声称这两名男子（Mahmoud Asgari和Ayaz Marhoni）有同性性行为并且强奸了另外一个男孩。但是，这些指控一直到事件引发国际关注之后才提出来，使得有人相信伊朗当局的这个举动是为了减少人们对这两名男子被处死的同情。[1][2]
[编辑]女同性戀行為

相對於對男同性戀者的懲罰，女同性戀行為的懲罰相對較輕。對於初犯的成人，会受到100次鞭打；但若有關犯人被處罰三次，第四次時會被判處死刑(見《刑法》127, 129, 130条)。

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If women could be dragged to jail for seeking the vote... if a generation could defeat a depression, and define greatness for all time... if a young preacher could lift us to the mountaintop with his righteous dream... and if proud Americans can be who they are and boldly stand at the altar with who they love... then surely, surely we can give everyone in this country a fair chance at that great American Dream.

-- Michelle Obama, First Lady


Have a gay day.

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哈哈，瞬间领悟：

“拍脑袋决定，拍胸脯保证，拍大腿后悔，拍屁股走人”

最后发表： xblues
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开头好看，越看越难看，我不转了，愿意看的同学自己顺着链接看吧。
有一次证明，我不看中文小说是有原因的，这个民族的文化欠X!@

[ 本帖最后由 xblues 于 6-9-2012 02:31 编辑 ]

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Straight People: Gay People Need Protection From Harm & Your Vote for Obama

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/to ... dlinkusaolp00000009

"ersecution of people because of their sexual orientation ... is every bit as unjust as that crime against humanity, apartheid."
--Desmond Tutu, 2004

LGBT discrimination is not simply a cultural or religious option as some maintain, because it causes serious harm to LGBT people who share this earth and deserve safe haven. This idea, that we all deserve to be safe and secure in our being, is the very foundation of the social compact by which we collectively form governments for self-rule. This is the same principle underpinning religious freedom and a universally accepted concept that mandates government protection from harm by others, particularly status-based. And make no mistake about it: homophobia kills and maims in horrific ways and the science is starting to show it.

Unfortunately, for too long and for complex reasons, the conversation about LGBT equality has failed to pointedly demonstrate the harm anti-gay social norms, laws and rhetoric cause. And in so doing, that advocacy has foregone the inescapable public policy argument that: because of the harm inflicted, it is the duty of the government to actively outlaw discrimination to protect roughly twenty million LGBT American children and adults from what is effectively societal abuse. Fortunately, Obama understands this, and has done amazing things already, but he needs your vote to further advance this urgent humanitarian mission.

The statistics on how discrimination affects LGBT people are still fledgling, but clear.

-        LGBT people are six times more likely to have multiple mental health disorders due to discrimination such as depression, general anxiety, conduct disorder and alcohol/substance disorder, all at much higher rates. -        41% of transgender people attempt suicide, and overall LGBT are roughly 4 times as likely, with 33% of all youth suicides being LGBT children.
-        LGBT youth are still rejected by their families, some because their parents fear they will be pedophiles threatening their siblings, a terrible false stereotype, and are thus, roughly 40% of all homeless youth, 73% of those rejected by their own parents and 8 times as likely to attempt suicide.

-        Violence directed against LGBT people is vicious and increasing. 61% of students feel unsafe at school, with almost 20% assaulted (punched, kicked or injured with a weapon), causing missed school and lower grades.

-        In employment, studies show massive discrimination in federal, state and private sectors, with 44% of LGB and 66% of transgender people being fired or not hired, or enduring steady fear, harassment, lower earnings and unfair scrutiny.

-        Gay people face housing discrimination at 30% in one study, though more information is needed.

-        There is widespread police abuse, including profiling, selective enforcement, and physical, verbal and sexual abuse in detention.

-        Elected officials are openly hostile in all 50 states; and the RNC 2012 platform calls for banning same-sex marriage by constitutional amendment. Correspondingly, in states with no discrimination protections, LGBT people are 5x more likely to have two or more mental disorders, and that increases by 1/3 in states with anti-gay referendum.

-        Finally, same-sex couples are denied the benefits and rights of marriage in over 40 states and at the federal level, creating uncertainty at the very fabric of most people's lives: the family. And the list goes on.

These horrific facts, which still woefully fail to capture the true nature of the daily interpersonal and internal emotional difficulties, are increasingly the tool of advocacy, particularly in the bullying realm. But the total picture is still buried, because in part, it paints an unflattering picture of LGBT people and feeds a horrible chapter in the annals of gay stigmatization, which previously held that homosexuality itself was a mental illness. This long-revoked and reversed designation by the American Psychological Association nevertheless remains the basis of cultural oppression, a basis of homophobia itself, inescapable by its victims and obvious in the oppressors sense of entitlement. And so the harm persists, with its perpetrators defiantly justifying their position, mostly on religious grounds, and the victims afraid to tell the truth of their suffering, even for their own liberation. This is the power of discrimination.

Hopefully, however, with the harm increasingly revealed, opponents will take note that their advocacy against LGBT equality is abuse in and of itself. And they will relinquish the flipside argument that religious people are somehow harmed, or their religious freedom somehow inappropriately infringed upon by LGBT equality. Yes, there may be some ways in which the current expanse of religion into the public sphere is affected, but this is inherent in the intersectional nature of freedom, which holds that one person's freedom ends where the other person's freedom begins. This idea is equally essential to our social compact because it carves out a realm of mutual respect - a sharing of space - by the accommodation of all parties to the freedom of one another. This is why governments are expressly secular, to avoid one religious group imposing on the free space of others, and why this social construct applies directly to non-discrimination protections for LGBT people in the public sphere, the realm where we must respect all religions, and where religions must respect all of us, period.

Sadly, since too few groups tell the story of how discrimination impacts the communal and individual psychology, LGBT Americans themselves often do not realize that their life's struggle is due in large part to discrimination. They may be suffering individually, unable to form relationships or careers, hypervigilant as abused children are, or battling depression, barely warding off suicide. But because they don't understand how social oppression affects individuals, they do not think of themselves as oppressed and they do not seek to change the broader situation, like victims of a mass frontal attack might for example. So very few participate in their own political movement, either assuming their suffering is a character trait to be overcome, or simply aware there is very little they can actually do about it. Either way, in a recent Harris poll commissioned by LOGO only 9% of LGBT respondents felt "gay rights in general" was most important in the 2012 election, trumped by the economy, jobs and unemployment, like most Americans. And yet their suffering continues, unabated, most unaware of the cause, and those that are, too few to change it.

Fortunately, President Obama has arrived like a true knight in shining armor, a constitutional law professor, a black man, a product of civil rights, and an international human rights champion. He has boldly instituted a shift in federal policy that has finally acknowledged the human rights obligation to protect LGBT people across the globe and at home. His record is too long to restate, but there is one undeniable truth: Barack Obama understands the insidious nature of discrimination that denies the soul safe passage, and is fulfilling his duty to protect as President. From Pride events at the U.S. Embassy in Islamabad, to United Nations Resolutions, to repeal of DADT and the appointment of the first lesbian to the United States Commission on Civil Rights, he has laid the course.

But he cannot do this alone or in one term. He needs the support of compassionate Americans who understand our collective responsibility to protect LGBT Americans. He needs Republican fathers and Independent cousins with gay friends and family. He needs clergy and civil rights activists alike. And he needs support from every American who truly believes in the ideals of equality and justice for all, but has stood on the sidelines in this last great civil rights battle of our age not knowing how to help. Now you do.

As it stands, the LGBT community has mostly been left to fend for itself over the last century, though it has made a valiant go of it claiming control of its destiny. It has propelled itself into mainstream acceptance from the bowels of human rejection, and created a real opportunity for equality and liberation. Culturally, there is Rachel Maddow, Anderson Cooper and Ellen. And politically, there are new campaigns by Lady Gaga and Oprah, Cyndi Lauper, and hundreds of dedicated groups and activists.

But there is no concerted quest for full federal legal protection to guard them comprehensively from discrimination - nor a plan to secure it any time soon. LGBT people simply do not have the political power or engagement it takes to even hope for such a goal, particularly if they have to go it alone. So it is time for the conscientious among you with real power to take the reins, like Obama has, and the individuals out there to take a stand for those in need.

And at this critical moment, we need Obama and we need your vote. To help end our plight, vote for Equality 2012 by voting Democrat down the line, or just for Obama, just this once. This election is still about hope for LGBT Americans, and President Obama still offers that hope.

Amnesty International '05: "The US has fallen behind many other countries in the legal recognition of the basic human rights of LGBT people."

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Bully，翻译成凌辱和暴力，比如校园暴力，工作环境中的歧视，甚至网络上的语言暴力都是Bully
本周五，9月7日是anti bully 日，请大家都穿紫色的衣服，以表示你支持反暴力的立场！

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我一贯无视共和党的。

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dcxg's positive comments please

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坚决反对

最后发表： 彼岸花开
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天生购物狂。。。但到这里后购物欲就没了，只有食欲。。。

终于把乱花钱的毛病给治好了

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好事情啊！
恭喜恭喜！

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so does dcxg!!!

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我和很多典型的同性恋一样，都是纳税大户，很少能够领到什么政府补助或者什么抵税的。而可以想象，等我老了，就是需要政府照顾的时候，由于社会的偏见，以及很多同性恋没有子女和伴侣，老龄同性恋对面临着很多特殊的社会问题。需要特殊照顾。目前澳洲刚刚通过了给老龄同性恋人的拨款。

反对党这个说法很不负责任。工党虽然不完美，但是反对党更差，所以选举只能选择绿党或者工党。

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不堪骚扰  
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1032483-1-1.html

（投票）因为Xblues的言论而对同性恋改变看法的有多少
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1032628-1-1.html

要么把FREEOZ变成同性恋网站，要么限制虫子使用FREEOZ网站？
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1032131-1-1.html

尊重科学，尊重基因导致的同性，呼吁公开化合法化
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1032335-1-1.html

我为同人邻居献一策：非暴戾求合作  
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1032482-1-1.html

呼吁正常对待同性恋话题，良性竞争
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1032525-1-1.html

投诉Xblue以及其马甲Ifas - new episode  
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1032045-1-1.html

What reason, right does 鹰扬天下 have, to block and edit my post
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1030765-1-1.html

关于freeoz
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1031957-1-2.html

投诉Xblue以及其马甲Ifas
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1031744-1-2.html

和虫子沟通一句
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1031534-1-2.html

控告“鹰扬天下”乱用权利
http://freeoz.org/ibbs/thread-1031917-1-2.html

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Maybe that YingYang admin wrote this book.

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上帝啊，救救这些饭桶吧，愿主赐予他们同性恋的孩子，给他们重新做人的一个机会！

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我觉得是他最后一轮的选歌失误。

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近日有报道称，路易-威登设计师马克雅各布和他的男友，巴西广告人Lorenzo Martone，数日内，他们要在马萨诸塞州举办婚礼，Lorenzo将对马克做出誓言。他们选择这个州不仅因为那里允许“非异性婚姻”，而且古香古色的景色也能满足举办经典新英格兰婚礼的需要@同志权威资讯

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忠少和强少来自福建，相爱两年零三个月。在相关微博的数百条评论中，大多是对两人深深的祝福
微博预告订婚消息引关注
南都记者注意到，最早发出相关微博的，就是事件当事人@纹身痞子O R健身小帅de爱。据了解，这是当事人强少和忠少共同的微博。8月14日，@纹身痞子O R健身小帅d e爱发微博称，去年因为爸爸生病直到去世婚礼取消，今年七夕将和男朋友在东莞一同志酒吧订婚。
此微博发出后，立即引起众多网友围观，该微博转发量也破两百。多数网友表达了祝福。忠少称，东莞一些网友看到微博后，提出帮两人策划订婚礼。决定订婚没多久，当事人就向@东莞韩风尚婚纱摄影发私信，希望对方能够赞助他们拍婚纱照。“私信发过去两天后，就有了回复，对方说愿意赞助我们。”忠少说，8月19日，强少和忠心便到影楼，拍摄了一套婚纱照。
8月19日晚上10点左右，@东莞韩风尚婚纱摄影便在微博中贴出两人的“婚纱照”。婚纱照中没有婚纱，两人都是穿的西装，阳光帅气。在该微博后的百余条评论中，亦是网友的一片祝福之声。@电影人程青松也转发了相关微博，并对两人表示祝福。
“应该给彼此一个名分”
为什么想到要订婚？强少表示，本来去年两人就打算在福建老家摆酒结婚，后来因父亲病重，事情便耽搁下来。“他说为了我，什么都可以牺牲，我听了很感动，觉得应该给彼此一个名分。”忠少说。
据了解，忠少和强少极有可能会是东莞首对公开订婚的同性恋恋人。在介绍两人订婚消息的微博中，其他不少网友也发微博感叹“爱情的伟大”。
8月21日，@纹身痞子O R健身小帅de爱在微博提出，希望有人能够赞助场地。最终，东莞一同志酒吧负责人看到此消息后，表示将无偿赞助。昨晚，忠少和强少已经开始在酒吧布置两人今天的订婚礼。两人表示，因为家人都在外地，到时候会电话汇报两人订婚的消息，订婚现场亦邀请了其他同性恋者的父母见证。

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综合台湾媒体报道，台湾疾病管制部门副负责人施文仪20日在社交网站上公开表达同性恋结婚应合法，表示从卫生角度，应排除万难来推动。他是台湾当局首位公开支持同性恋婚姻的高层官员。

施文仪每周会在社交网站上放上创作的“每周疫诗”，本周以同性恋结婚议题发表：“人权报告落落长，同志结婚又何妨，推说社会缺共识，虚晃远景太牵强；同性结婚应保障，忠贞伴侣才正常，艾滋性病易控制，社会福气同志畅。”

若从医疗费用支出，
施文仪说，每天新增约2名艾滋病患，若吃药30年每人一生医疗费用就超过1000万元(新台币，下同)，每名确诊的新个案代表当局已经为他们开出一张千万元的未来支票。

他说，同性恋婚姻关系一旦受到法律认可，找到真爱透过婚姻组成家庭，给同性恋一条合法的路，而不是仅以“缺乏社会共识”推托相关议题，让同性恋们被歧视、贴标签、躲在社会角落，参加找伴侣的各种聚会发生危险性行为，染病成为一生的痛，同时也加重当局财政负担。

他说，合法化不只婚姻会受到保护，同时也受到约束，且同性恋可能会比异性恋更珍惜这份得来不易的幸福，疾病也能获得控制，不只是同性恋的福利，更是社会大众的福气。

施文仪说，从卫生的角度来看，高层应做出政策指示，排除万难推动。

台湾阳明大学艾滋病防治中心主任陈宜民表示，从防疫的角度来看，施文仪支持同性恋婚姻是一个很好的尝试。异性恋者用婚姻稳固关系，同性恋者也应该享有同样的立足点。

台卫生主管部门说，这是施文仪个人的意见，不代表“卫生署疾管局”的立场。同性恋婚姻合法化的议题，还要考虑台湾的文化背景、社会接纳度。
来源：中新网

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我一直发这样的帖子，没人看。
那些吵架的帖子，尽管我都有参与，但是没有一个是我发起的。

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么事么事，欢迎多飘！

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刚才是飘错地方。现在是此路不通。