IT guys ,how is you marriage ?

Jbells

IT guys ,how is you marriage ?(excepted the singles)<br>
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Oftne heard the people whom complain their marriage ,especially the IT guys' partners.I am one of them,because my partner is a IT guy and who spend most of time with computer, forget a other side of the world .We have been had so many arguments and so many times I nearly smash his computr but ,what should I do ? way I'm married with IT guy ! <img src="../leadbbsfile/UBBicon/em03.GIF"  align=absmiddle border=0>

orangecat

偶已经退出IT业，不想再象以前一样整日加班到处出差，生活除了睡觉就是上班。<br>
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人生有舍有得，舍去了奋斗8年的稳定工作，偶得到了想要的平静和能与老公共同成长分享快乐的日子。<br>

stoval

要对干IT的给予理解。很多时候他们是不得不比干别的行业的要多化些时间，毕竟IT的发展太快了，一不留神就落后了。

獭霸雷西

我回家基本上从来不摸计算机，有事就公司里搞定了。看了一天了，谁还回家用计算机。<br>
不用always meet deadline，可以边学边干嘛！你看书，老板肯定会给你赞许的眼光，时不时还问问，用不用公司出费用去培训啊？

可达鸭

呵呵，sunnyday的老婆真是高啊！<br>
搂主抱怨的是老公玩游戏，也许和是否it没有关系，有这样一种人群痴迷于网络游戏的。不一定是it这一职业阿。。说实话，这种事别人没法说，看你老公痴迷的程度和你的耐受能力了。祝你们好运！<P><table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0><tr><td><OBJECT codeBase='<a target=_blank href=http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab>http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab</a>#version=4,0,2,0' classid='clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000' width='48' height='48' Id='Audible32036580401'><PARAM NAME=movie VALUE='../plug-ins/audio/swf/05.swf'><param name=menu value=false><PARAM NAME=quality VALUE=high><PARAM NAME=play VALUE=false><param name='wmode' value='transparent'><embed src='../plug-ins/audio/swf/05.swf' quality='high' pluginspage='<a target=_blank href=http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'>http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'</a> type='application/x-shockwave-flash' width='48' height='48'></embed></OBJECT></td><td align='left' style='cursor:hand;' title='鼠标悬停播放' nowrap  onclick='document.Audible32036580401.Play()'>一定要幸福喔！</td></tr></table></p>

Jbells

Well done ORANGECAT ,it's very tough dicsion that you made ( good salary too ).<br>
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Two years age , a friend of my who quit the IT job after his wife took the kids left him .It's hard to say who is right & who is worng ,some time the work & personal life are difficult to find balance if no kids this is make life much easier.<br>
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My husband ( I often call him partner ) who is addicted to the computer sinc he was 15 years old .25 years passed, is hard to let him has change especially whenhe's getting old . He always say "...too much work ...too strees...come home do something differnet I need relax...". If he keep his fingers on the key broad & face to the screen ,his feel just great nothing can let his big & fat body get move at all, perhaps like level 10 said that nothing about IT .<br>
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There are some IT families may like us today ,I speak out & make a big noise some of the them are not & most of the them can find the balance .<br>
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Thanks very one to join this subject ,I read very carefully from each of the you ,hope my life can improve .To myself ; less complain & keep our computers are nice & clean .To some IT guys ( include my husband ); please pay come of attention to your family especialy your KIDS . <br>
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Jbells

Upstairs maybe right thank you.!<br>But most IT guys work long hours ,some of the weekends and evenings,how many times are left for their family ? IT guys understand computer systme more than others,so,they're not interesting the games form the shop,they like build by theirselvies and that game can be never finished .My husband almost build other planet but that not real.<br>
I'm not mean IT guys are bad ,just give myself or some of others warning,becauese my couple of the friands' marriage have problems that's all.<br>
Sunnday,my husband said if our son pass urine on the key board is OK unless not his wife .Wwhat do you thank ?

poloand

Life is just a sign.<br>
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If you marriage another one, you may complain other things of him.

社会不满

WHAT? 男的嫁给一个IT GUY? 他没有时间陪你去公厕玩? WTF?

社会不满

WHAT? 男的嫁给一个IT GUY? 他没有时间陪你去公厕玩? WTF?

mite

你到澳洲了吗

akai

大猫, 你的msn block我了? 好久没看你上线了

jackypdd

haha~~

mite

关税和IT没有关系<br>
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或者可以象SUNNYDAY的老婆以前一样 把BB的尿刹在他键盘上<br>
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呵呵

wyatt

哈哈

arwen

楼上老板不错哦

Jbells

My partner would be likes thank you to every one for support, I agree with you guys if he's realy working or study,.you know what his doing ? play chess or game .Some time he do some work at home , I'm support him and down all the housework .<br>
Couple of weeks ago I join FREEOZ,next step we probably need looking for a house keep or like sunyday's wife_____ let our son pass water on the key board ( what's great idea !thank you mite).<br>
Anyway,we have happy marriage ,he is nice guy just to much spend time with computer for the rubbish things, that way I'm complaing about .<br><br>

stoval

举个例子吧，要考CCNP的话要通过4门考试，若不是单纯为了考试而考试，而是确实要学些东西的话，每一门最好看2本相关的书，现在的书一本约500页左右，一般上需要看两边，这样要拿到CCNP认证的话就需要看500*2*2*4=8000页的书。若不挤时间的话怎么可以哪？:)

chubbycat

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bctransit

come on, IT Guy is not bad :)<br>
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if you scare to marry to IT guy, put yourself into IT first, then..