至于跑到美国网购么? - why not? that's her choice . Would it be ok if you were forced to get out of closet? It's your choice too, when you do it or how you do it
To mess around with (跟 @nil 斗) nil, Y need wisdom rather than bravery! I am afraid that bravery won't be any help at all for you, you really need to keep this in mind!