本帖最后由 coach 于 17-9-2013 10:43 编辑
qqiuj 发表于 16-9-2013 12:46
老公交了辞呈,公司想留他,让开条件,但是perth的合同已经签了,搬家的公司也差不多要定了,老公问我怎么办 ...
If I were you, I will not move to Perth.
A few years ago, I moved from one place to another which cost me at least $2K + 10wks searching for a place+ 2wks annual leave + lots of time to clean/move/shift....... I only move by myself. The two place was only 3 KMs away.
If you move with your family, you have to add a few things: you will lost your friends, familiar environment, school, communities....... you have to re learn research reorganize your life... your kids will need to learn how to find new friends, your husband may need to cope new stress which he has never experienced before...
ask your husband and yourself do you really want to change or you are 70-80% happy for your current situation. You should find the answer soon.
If you are really happy to move, then go ahead.
If not, still doubt, you may have to listen to your heart. Just ask your husband to negotiate with his current boss. I am sure the boss could be much happy if your husband will stay. |