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chubbydog和dcxg合租。一天晚上回来，chubbydog心情很沮丧，然后dcxg就很体贴地给她烧了碗面吃，她觉得很温馨，于是很感动地说：“我们就这么凑合过算了～”没想到dcxg却从凳子上跳起来说道：“那可不行，你没男人要，我可有男人要的！”

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谁更有权利谁赢。如今对同志们的歧视少了的原因，不是因为这个世界更加宽容了，而是因为同志们更加强大了。

基督教为什么这么歧视同志，这么反对同性婚姻？其实是基督教的权利心作祟，而实际上基督教正在没落，基督教的没落和消亡是什么都阻止不了的！

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找个离婚男不就行了吗

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同性婚姻无论在中国还是在澳洲都不被法律承认，不过在同性婚姻这一问题上，中国和澳洲的区别还是很大的。

中国目前还没有公开讨论同性婚姻，澳洲已经提交了议案议会已经开始讨论。

中国反对同性恋和同性婚姻的人多数没有宗教信仰，他们对同性恋的歧视来自于自私与无知，而澳洲对同性恋的歧视不像中国人那么明目张胆，澳洲对于同性婚姻的法对这绝大多数都是教徒。

什么时候同性婚姻能够在中国合法化，还是一个未知数，中国的人权一项是一个遮羞布，在中国没有人权。澳洲的同性婚姻合法化在近两年内指日可待。

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They all are, dcxg's pretty sure about that

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but this piece of shit has been pretending to be a straight guy

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出道超过十年的容祖儿鲜见绯闻，她跟知己密友何韵诗的同性关系，最惹人谈论。容祖儿说：“我跟何韵诗是杨生介绍认识的，大家相识了十多年，一直互相扶持。”

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Only one word:HOT!

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http://taboojive.com/why-novembers-election-is-so-important/

Why November’s Election is SO ImportantPosted by ron kemp
为什么11月美国大选对同志们至关重要




I’ve been trying to get this thought out, now, for almost a month. One thing after another has gotten in the way of its completion. Yet, I feel it’s vitally important for me to get it out. Then, last Wednesday following the Scott Walker recall election, I was presented with just the catalyst I needed to see it through.

While out playing music, which is what I do, this local homeless Viet Nam vet came up to me and pushed my button! “Well, those stupid fucking Democrats really took it up the ass yesterday!” Now, I’m use to his vitriolic statements. He’s still at war. I get that. I’ve known him for quite some time. And, his conversations are usually right along that same line. And, typically, I just listen to his rhetoric, smile, nod, and go on about my day. It usually works. Not today. Today, he pushed my buttons. He pushed my buttons because he reminded me, up close and person, of exactly why it is of extreme importance for Obama to win in November.

This isn’t about politics, really. This is about loving and caring. This is about tolerance. This is more about right and wrong. And, it’s about survival.
这（个选举）不是关于政治，而是关于爱和关爱，是关于宽容，是关于正义与邪恶，事关生存！


I want to make it perfectly clear that I’m no professional political analyst. Not even close. In fact, the only thing I am, as a professional, is a musician. I’m a single, gay, black male. I’m an older black male who was around, albeit as a young boy, when blacks were fighting for their own right to exist.
我不是一个政治家，我是一个音乐家，单身，同志，黑人。我是一个经历过黑人解放运动的黑人老者。

Our country is entrenched in a cultural war. That should be no secret to anyone with a pulse. We’re seeing a second-coming of the Civil Rights movement of the 60s as the LGBT community fight, essentially for their right to even exist. Just as blacks did in the 50s and 60s. The parallels are undeniable.
我们的国家正在经历一场文化战争，毫无疑问，同性恋人正在经历自60年代第二次民权斗争，事关生存和权利。正如50年代，60年代的黑人解放运动。

Of course, there are many who would vehemently disagree with me. Over and over again, I’ve read this older black leader or another protest the notion that today fight for equal rights by the LGBT community is an extension of the Civil Rights battle of the 60s.
I can state as a black man who lived during those times as a young black boy in the South that it is, indeed, the same fight. In truth, despite their efforts to distance themselves from today’s struggle, it is the same fight being fought against the same establishment. The same hateful, mean-spirited, bigoted people who wanted to keep Blacks “in their place” 50-60 years ago now want to do the same with the LGBT community.
当然，很多人不同意我这么说。我曾经不止一次的听到一名年长的黑人说今天的同性恋人群的斗争是60年代民权斗争的延伸。当时作为一个黑人男孩，我目睹了当时黑人解放运动。尽管反同人士一次又一次的极力声明，他们和60年代歧视黑人的那些人不一样。但是，两者都有着相同的 憎恨，狭隘的观点，无知，他们当时想要把黑人限制在【黑人保留地】。50，60年之后，又是这些人想要对同性恋人群做同样的事情。

Well, of course not the same people. That was a half-century ago. However, it IS, in fact, the same establishment. Now, before I get called out on this for not knowing my history, I’m very well aware that there were Democrats and Republicans, alike, who were fighting against Civil Rights back then, whereas today’s war is being waged solely by the ultra right-wing, Christian fundamentalists. In that day, the political lines were a bit more blurred than they are today. Today, there is an unmistakable gulf of a line drawn between the two parties. And, that division has permeated our entire society. We’re very much a “them and us” culture. And, therein lies the problem.
当然不是同一群人啦，黑人解放运动是半个世纪以前的事情。但是，这些人反对的理由和做法很类似。当时也是共和党和民主党之间的斗争，但是那时候正反两派并非黑白分明，如今正反两派确实观点鲜明的对立。

Listen, I’m a Democrat, myself. However, I can readily acknowledge that there’s a lot that Obama has not done during his current presidency. He’s left a lot to be desired. I get it. At the same time, I was realistic enough from the beginning to know that he WOULDN’T be able to do but so much. Why? There was no way “they” were going to let a smooth-talking black President show but so much accomplishment. The Civil Rights struggle of the 60s may have been won in theory, but in reality there are still struggles on the racial front, as well.
我是民主党，但是我也同意奥巴马目前所做的还远远不够，我很现实的相信，【他们】是不可能让一个讲着流利英语的黑人这么顺利的取得那么多成就的。60年代的黑人解放运动以胜利为告终，但是种族问题如今还是一个现实存在的问题。

Today’s Civil Rights struggle is being fought by the LGBT community, making this the second Civil Rights struggle that I will be directly affected by. As with the Blacks in the 50s and 60s, all we’re seeking is equality. That’s it. Simple equality. We want to be able to marry the person we love. Legally. We want to be protected against discrimination in the workplace and in the housing market. We want the hate crime laws to protect every single America, which include us. We want to see an end to the incessant bullying of our LGBT youth, (sanctioned legally in some states), which is leading far-too-many of them to end their lives. In short, we just want the right to live our lives, as who we are, just as freely as our heterosexual counterparts. That’s really not asking too much, and it certainly isn’t asking for “special rights” as they try to make you believe.


Why IS it so incredibly important that the current President of the United States win the election this year? The answer is quite simple, actually. The short answer is if Obama fails to retain the White House, our culture will be doomed back to the days, and ways, of Ward, June, Wally, and the Beav. It’s that simple. That’s the utopian world they envision. That’s the simple answer. A deeper look reveals a much more disturbing picture. Failure by Obama to win the White House in November will ensure:

1.) Every single hard-fought gain the LGBT community has made will be erased. The few states that do have marriage equality? Gone. Anti-discrimination policies that protects the LGBT community? Forget about it.

2.) The death rate amongst LGBT teens will continue to soar. It’s as simple as that. Look, let’s take off the blinders. The ultra-conservative, far-right wing, Christian faction hates us. Period. Ironic, isn’t it? Christians hating. Yet, we’ve heard preachers tell their congregation that we should die. These are Christians. These are leaders. These people are the driving force behind the Republican Party today.

3.) Today’s Republican Party is being spearheaded by some of the most narrow-minded, evil-spirited “politicians” I’ve ever seen in my lifetime. That there are Republican senators working feverishly to pass legislation that will, in effect, sanction the bullying of LGBT teens should tell you all that you need to know. And, that’s just a small fraction of the threat they pose to the LGBT community.

I’m not naive. I understand that there will always be narrow-minded, bigoted people in the world and in our society. However, at this specific point in time, they’ve risen to positions of power. With that, they’ve seemingly made it their life’s mission to all but do away with anything gay. Indeed, there has been right-wing political and religious leaders calling for the death of LGBT people. They’re flexing their political/religious muscle, spewing extraordinarily hateful and intolerant rhetoric to their followers. In doing so, they are creating a very dangerous environment for members of the LGBT community. To wit:

* Just last week, a landmark gay bar was set ablaze in Chicago.

* The LGBT Headquarters in Washington, DC recently endured a bomb threat.

* Schoolyard bullies are more empowered than ever in their attacks against those they perceive to be LGBT schoolmates, driving many to commit suicide.

* In the news just today, an ultra-conservative mayor in Michigan added fuel to the already-raging firestorm directed towards her by way of a recall vote with yet another ridiculous statement about the LGBT community.

Indeed, Obama losing the election in November would be catastrophic for the LGBT community. Not just because he’s gone public in his support for marriage equality. It would be catastrophic because it would put in power the absolute meanest, most narrow-minded collection of “leaders” I’ve ever witnessed. Giving power to this group of people would take the LGBT community back to pre-Stonewall days. At least! Giving power to them would absolutely assure an escalation in the already-alarming suicide rate amongst LGBT teens. Why? Because they don’t care about you if you’re LGBT. In their eyes, we shouldn’t exist. And, quite frankly, people with this mentality have absolutely no business whatsoever in positions of power.

Honestly, this really isn’t about politics, per se. It’s more about right and wrong. It’s wrong for people to use positions of power to systematically destroy a group of people. To call for the death of a group of people is called genocide. How is that even legal? Maybe within the next four years, they’ll get some people in their party who actually care about ALL people, including people in the LGBT community. Maybe that’s asking too much. Well, at the very least, we can hope for a group of people who aren’t as mean-spirited as this collection is. Until then, I think we need to do everything in our power to make sure they don’t succeed in November.

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[ 本帖最后由 xblues 于 17-6-2012 10:27 编辑 ]

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澳洲参政部长Penny Wong: 没有必要恐惧同性婚姻！
Nothing to fear over gay marriage: Wong

Penny Wong 一家子


FINANCE Minister Penny Wong has told gay rights groups and Labor party members that marriage equality is a "bedrock principle" and its opponents have nothing to fear.
澳洲财政部长Penny Wong 日前告诉同志愿意组织和工党：婚姻平等是根本，反对者无需恐惧。

Senator Wong, who helped drive a hard-fought change to the ALP's platform on gay marriage, likened the campaign for marriage reform to the fight for racial equality.
"Equality is a bedrock principle," she said in her keynote address to the annual Rainbow Labor Network conference on Saturday.
"A principle that we could never today contemplate breaching in respect of race, or age, or class or other attribute - but a principle denied to some in the Australian community solely on the basis of their sexuality."
今天我们可以在种族，年龄，社会阶级，和其他方面实现平等，但是我们却在性取向上歧视一些澳洲人。

Concerns that same-sex marriage would change the nature of heterosexual marriage were groundless, she told the conference.
"I say to those who oppose marriage equality: there is nothing to fear.
说同性婚姻会改变异性恋婚姻的毫无根据的。

"Marriages between men and women are in no way devalued, nor made less secure by this change."
一个男人和一个女人之间的婚姻是不会因为承认同性婚姻而受到贬低或者变得不安全。

Australian Marriage Equality campaigner Alex Greenwich told AAP the address was "inspiring".
"Senator Wong gave a very inspiring speech, and I think if she were to deliver a speech like that to the Senate, that she would win over people on all sides of politics," he said.
The South Australian senator described letters penned by church leaders, to be read out during Sunday services, as a disappointing development.
"We're a democracy and obviously people have a right to advocate their view," she told reporters at the Sydney event.
"Obviously not all Australians of faith share the view that we should continue discrimination when it comes to marriage.
"No one is advocating that religious organisations, churches, should be required to solemnise relationships that don't accord with their teaching."
没有人强迫教会一定要违背他们的信仰去承认同性婚姻。

Senator Wong and her partner Sophie Allouache became parents for the first time in late 2011.
Penny Wong 和她的女朋友 Sophie 于2011年正式同居关系。

She brushed away a suggestion she might get married if same-sex marriage were legalised, calling it "a very personal question".

Read more: http://www.news.com.au/breaking- ... 00379#ixzz1xwYIZ1sk

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男女平等的天平永远不存在。养家和糊口是很现实的问题。关键在于谁主内谁主外，谁是红花谁做绿叶？要求职场女性回家立马成为孝敬公婆的好媳妇，伺候丈夫的好太太，照顾孩子的好妈妈，既要上得了厅堂又要下得了橱房，还要美丽和幽默兼而有之，太不公正。

要是心不在焉了，一切都很丑陋刺耳。

我的朋友有一对双双英国同专业留学移民来澳，太太就职于国立大厦财务要职，男的没对口工作只好开家take away，，另一对双双中国同专业移民，女的在某外大财团做到了财务总监，男的失业在家买汏烧带孩子，，，还有一对夫妇共同辛苦拼打，创下百万家业，二十年后男的抛弃妻儿，独霸产业，但保了旧情人和她的女儿来，逼得原配卖大房住小房，中断女儿私校学习，自己以泪洗面，而她原本有自己的学历和爱好。

女人需要男人的诃护，但一定要自爱，自强，自立，不能与社会脱轨。宁愿把工资付给保姆，也不能充当全职家庭主妇。千万别信他的养你和孩子一辈子的所谓承诺。

女人一定要工作！！！

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SAP shows its supportPosted on 14 June 2012
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In an emotional plea to end homophobic bullying, international software company SAP has thrown its support behind the It Gets Better anti-bullying campaign.

During the 11-minute video message, SAP employees share personal messages about coming out.

In the film, parents Steve and Pati Fehr talk about the death of their 18 year-old son Jeff who took his life on January 1 after suffering years of bullying as an openly gay teenager.

“In honour of Jeff, the least we can do is share his story with others in the hope that at least one person does not make the fatal decision Jeff made and another family does not have to endure the pain, agony and loss we are enduring,” Fehr said.

“For Pati and me, that is why the It Gets Better films are so important.

“We need to continue to take steps to raise awareness, educate people on the impact of bullying, and initiate programs in schools to promote tolerance and social and emotional learning.”

In the video, SAP co-CEO Jim Hagemann Snabe said, as a parent, he wants to see diversity supported.

“Many kids today are under pressure to conform to certain ideas to fit in,” Hagemann Snabe said.

“Being different isn’t always easy, being different can be tough.

“My company SAP has been built on innovation. We welcome different. We value different.”

The video was released in California this month with representatives from the It Gets Better Project, Trevor Project and local high schools.

SAP Australia and New Zealand employs more than 600 people serving more than 2,000 customers in major industries including the public sector, manufacturing, mining and retail.

http://www.starobserver.com.au/n ... s-its-support/79124

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  仔细挖掘一下？

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  我也想，可是没人跟我。

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  不再关心中国。

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Israeli army shows gay soldier support
以色列军方支持同性恋士兵服役




Posted on 12 June 2012









The Israeli Defense Force (IDF) has posted a photo of two male soldiers holding hands to its official Facebook page to celebrate Pride Month.




日前以色列军方在其Facebook首页上放了一张有两名男性士兵手牵手的图片，来庆祝同性恋自豪月。




“It’s Pride Month. Did you know that the IDF treats all of its soldiers equally?” the image caption reads.




附图说明：同志自豪月，你知道以色列军方不区别对待任何士兵么？




The image shows two soldiers strolling hand in hand through a Tel Aviv street and has nearly 4000 shares and more than 5,500 likes.




这张图片立刻引发了公众的关注，被转发了4000次，获得了5500次LIKE。




Israel was one of the first countries to abolish restrictions on openly-gay soldiers serving in the military and has prohibited gay discrimination in the armed forces since 1993.




以色列自1993年起，军方就命令禁止针对性取向的歧视，完全支持同性恋士兵在军中服役，是实施这类规定最早的国家机构之一。




Despite the military policies, however, a 2011 study showed more than 40 percent of gay and lesbian soldiers in the IDF say they have been harassed because of their sexuality.




尽管以色列军方有着禁止歧视同性恋士兵服役的规定，在2011年的一项调查中，还是有着40%的同性恋士兵声称因为性取向的不同，他们曾经收到过威胁。




Haaretz reported last year that 45 percent of respondents claimed homophobic remarks remained frequent, with soldiers in combat units reporting them more frequently.




以色列军方去年的内部投诉中，有45%的投诉和歧视同性恋有关。

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那你解释一下好了。

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国内前几年有拿洋文凭比较吃香的故事

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有些人自踏上他人国土的那一刻就立志要改头换面，脱胎换骨不做中国人了，于是天天说英文吃西餐交白人朋友，不与中国人来往，经过几年或十几年的艰苦磨练，自觉得自己很不中国人了，开口闭口就是“你们中国人。。。”
就比如ryan88吧，他肯定不是中国人啦，所以老是跑到中国人的网站来骂中国人，早也骂晚夜骂天天跑来骂，他真的脱了胎换了骨吗？怎么看怎么听，他就像个中国人，就像他骂着的那种中国人，而且比中国人还要中国人！
想要投胎换面可不是一朝一夕的事，也不是十几年或几十年的事，需要有几代的转换和演变，其实你是什么人中国人不感兴趣，白人更加没有兴趣，所以嘛，做人不要这么浅薄，要好自为之，免得被当作笑柄。

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这么一说也有道理，虫子是有责任感的人。

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well done!

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五毛中饭桶比例奇高。没办法，五毛和饭桶基本都不是用大脑思考的。看过超级五毛司马南的一段视频，他也是一个彻底的饭桶。

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。。

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为了生孩子放弃了事业。

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是飞人吗

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个人认为她这个胸很可能是真的，因为很垂很松垮，正常的大胸都是这样的，假胸是维多利亚贝克汉姆原来那种，象石头一样坚挺。
作为亚洲人，能长这么大的胸也挺不容易的了，估计她从小吃了很多日本豆制品喝了很多花生奶

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悉尼北区发生一起
一华男跟老婆离婚后回中国找了个年轻貌美的新媳妇儿
结果他送儿子给前妻时被煲的汤迷晕
前妻对这名男子进行阉割
但该男子因失血过多死亡
前妻误杀罪名成立

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可见帅哥对中国人的印象是：白胖寡言。

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这个人的发言看似有道理，其实是歪理和混淆概念。他混淆了【人权】和【荣誉和特权】的区别。

同性恋平等权益是一项【基本人权】。而不是一项【荣誉】或者【特权】。

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请斑竹加高亮，谢谢！

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好奇，既然做了变性手术，咋还怀孕了呢？

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有人唱红脸有人唱黑脸，我是唱黑脸的。同志们的平等不是祈求就能得到的，历史上那一项平等运动不是斗争得来的啊。

老麦，你五大三粗的，跟我玩什么神经脆弱啊？

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维州每天400名车族因为闯红灯而被拍到，相比之下，新州每天仅有152人被拍，与昆州相比，这一差距则将进一步扩大：2010-2011年，因“抢跑”而吃罚单的维州人是阳光之州的10倍——该州每天仅有42人被开闯红灯罚单。


via澳洲见闻

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偶妈妈今天网上视频，偶妈妈还是忍不住问题：你啥时候能干点正常事啊？

我说：你要好是没啥说的，我就挂啦。

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It isn't official here, but in the US Obama just declared June to be Gay Pride Month (June is significant because of the Stonewall Riots in the 1970's that occurred in this month, and this is the month in which they have the gay pride festival in New York. This is also the month that we had protests in response to the Stonewall Riots, which eventually became the Sydney Mardi Gras, and was moved to Feb so we could enjoy it in warmer weather).

为什么是6月呢？因为著名的 石头墙 Stonewall 事件发生于1970年6月，美国纽约的同志自豪节也是6月。原本悉尼的Mardi Gras也是6月，不过因为气候的关系被移到了3月。我等着一系列好消息！

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