ZT融入澳洲法则

charliezh66

上周末和几个4年前一起来澳州读书的朋友聊天，发现大家都工作了，安顿下来了，只是在不同城市，但都普遍存在没法融入这里的感觉。有一个朋友说的很对，我们不可能让澳洲融入我们（毕竟不是谁都住在悉尼的），但是我们如何融入澳洲呢？

最后大家总结下来一些法则：

1. Go pub after work at least 2 times every week with your mate, don't drink alcohol, just soft drink will do. The purpose is to improve your english.

2. Attend every BBQ hold by your mate, and try to hold BBQ at your home at least one per 2 months.

3. Don't live in Asian suburb. Buy a house in local suburb, even a little bit expensive and a little bit far from city. It's not just good for you, but also good for your kids in the future.

4. Watch local news at least 3 day after tea per week.

5. Watch Footy every weekend even you don't like it. And pick up Port Adelaide or Crowns or any other faviourate local team. This will be helpful when you make friends with Males at your daily life coz it's a common topic you can pick up during conversation.

emilydear

楼主总结得很有道理，补充一条，有在当地呆过很长时间的朋友讲当地大多数人虽然友善，帮忙帮到热情过头的程度，但其实只是无聊，长期交酱紫的朋友也很boring的。真要乐子是自己找的，不是非要找当地的才开心。
澳洲欧洲移民也很多的啊，白人移民间抱成团的不比韩国人的小团体少 。

nanci

关键是要知道老外想什么？他们怎么认为？不过老外是不说的，都表面上很友善，但心理歧视你都不知道，关键是叫老外看得起我们，我们要行为比他们好，比他们还文明，比他们友善，叫他们佩服你，关键是心理美，我一直在努力，我生活在他们中间，他们真的还很佩服我，说我不是表面上的美，不自私，中国人一定要他们改变看法！

shenyouwohao

“我们不可能让澳洲融入我们（毕竟不是谁都住在悉尼的）”

悉尼已经被我们同化了吗？