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作者: yeats_only    时间: 4-6-2014 13:22
标题: 当我真正开始爱自己​ ZT
当我真正开始爱自己​

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——卓别林，写于70岁生日当天

当我真正开始爱自己，​

我才认识到，所有的痛苦和情感的折磨，​

都只是提醒我：活着，不要违背自己的本心。​

今天我明白了，这叫做
『真实』。​


当我真正开始爱自己，​

我才懂得，把自己的愿望强加于人，​

是多么的无礼，就算我知道，时机并不成熟，
那人也还没有做好准备，​

就算那个人就是我自己，
今天我明白了，这叫做
『尊重』。​

当我开始爱自己，
我不再渴求不同的人生，​

我知道任何发生在我身边的事情，​

都是对我成长的邀请。
如今，我称之为​

『成熟』。

当我开始真正爱自己，​

我才明白，我其实一直都在正确的时间，​

正确的地方，发生的一切都恰如其分。
由此我得以平静。​

今天我明白了，这叫做
『自信』。​

当我开始真正爱自己，​

我不再牺牲自己的自由时间，​

不再去勾画什么宏伟的明天。
今天我只做有趣和快乐的事，
做自己热爱，让心欢喜的事，
用我的方式，以我的韵律。
今天我明白了，这叫做
『单纯』。​


当我开始真正爱自己，​

我开始远离一切不健康的东西。
不论是饮食和人物，还是事情和环境，
我远离一切让我远离本真的东西。
从前我把这叫做“追求健康的自私自利”，
但今天我明白了，这是
『自爱』。​

当我开始真正爱自己，​

我不再总想着要永远正确，不犯错误。
我今天明白了，这叫做
『谦逊』。

我当开始真正爱自己，
我不再继续沉溺于过去，​

也不再为明天而忧虑，
现在我只活在一切正在发生的当下，​

今天，我活在此时此地，​

如此日复一日。这就叫
『完美』。​

当我开始真正爱自己，​

我明白，我的思虑让我变得贫乏和病态，
但当我唤起了心灵的力量，
理智就变成了一个重要的伙伴，
这种组合我称之为，
『心的智慧』。​

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我们无须再害怕自己和他人的分歧，矛盾和问题，因为即使星星有时也会碰在一起，形成新的世界，今天我明白，这就是​

『生命』！​

作者: 指纹    时间: 4-6-2014 13:33
很感动
作者: mason00    时间: 4-6-2014 13:44
我很。。。像
作者: Dux    时间: 4-6-2014 22:54
Charlie Chaplin’s “When I started loving myself”, part 1

When I started loving myself   
I’ve understood that I’m always and at any given opportunity
in the right place at the right time.  
And I’ve understood that all that happens is right –  
from then on I could be calm.
Today I know: It’s called TRUST.

When I started loving myself
I could recognize that emotional pain and grief
are just warnings for me to live against my own truth.
Today I know: It’s called AUTHENTICALLY BEING.

When I started loving myself
I have stopped longing for another life
and could see that everything around me was a request to grow.
Today I know: It’s called MATURITY.
作者: Dux    时间: 4-6-2014 22:55
Charlie Chaplin’s “When I started loving myself”, part 2
When I started loving  myself
I’ve stopped depriving myself of my free time
and I’ve stopped sketching further magnificent projects for the future.
Today I only do what’s fun and joy for me,
what I love and what makes my heart laugh,
in my own way and in my tempo.
Today I know: it’s called HONESTY.

When I started loving myself
I’ve escaped from all what wasn’t healthy for me,
from dishes, people, things, situations
and from everyhting pulling me down and away from myself.
In the beginning I called it the “healthy egoism”,
but today I know: it’s called SELF-LOVE.

When I started loving myself
I’ve stopped wanting to be always right
thus I’ve been less wrong.
Today I’ve recognized: it’s called HUMBLENESS.
作者: Dux    时间: 4-6-2014 22:56
Charlie Chaplin’s “When I started loving myself”, part 3

When I started loving myself
I’ve refused to live further in the past
and to worry about my future.
Now I live only at this moment where EVERYTHING takes place,
like this I live every day and I call it CONSCIOUSNESS.

When I started loving myself
I recognized, that my thinking
can make me miserable and sick.
When I though requested for my heart forces,
my mind got an important partner.
I call this connection today HEART WISDOM.

We do not need to fear further discussions,
conflicts and problems with ourselves and others
since even stars sometimes bang on each other
and create new worlds.
Today I know: THIS IS THIS LIFE!
作者: Dux    时间: 4-6-2014 23:37
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