[推荐]育儿宝典每日贴！

sunnyday

<table width=100% bgcolor=#cccccc cellpadding=5 cellspacing=1 class=TBone><tr><td bgcolor=#f7f7f7 class=TBBG9><font color="gray">都是我从网上搜出来的一些育儿的经验，我看了，很好，很受启发。<br>
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平日经常在家把东西乱放，电视开得很大声，玩电脑玩到很晚。以前妻子因为这些事情教育我，都只是简单的骂骂而已，没有什么深层次的含义。现在好了，有了个什么都学的小Kevin，我再犯这样那样的错误，就会被当作一个严重的反面典型爸爸被批判。<br>
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孩子一天天长大，我深感自己肩上的担子重了。的确，我们的言行，都是在起表率作用，都对孩子的成长起着潜移默化的作用。<br>
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因此，教育孩子的过程，其实也是我们自己成长的过程。<br>
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－－仅以此连载，送给所有在论坛的父母和准父母们！也送给我的妻子，她在对Kevin的教育方面，比我做得好得多的多！</font></td></tr></table><P><table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0><tr><td><OBJECT codeBase='<a target=_blank href=http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab>http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab</a>#version=4,0,2,0' classid='clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000' width='48' height='48' Id='Audible89123544843'><PARAM NAME=movie VALUE='../plug-ins/audio/swf/12.swf'><param name=menu value=false><PARAM NAME=quality VALUE=high><PARAM NAME=play VALUE=false><param name='wmode' value='transparent'><embed src='../plug-ins/audio/swf/12.swf' quality='high' pluginspage='<a target=_blank href=http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'>http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'</a> type='application/x-shockwave-flash' width='48' height='48'></embed></OBJECT></td><td align='left' style='cursor:hand;' title='鼠标悬停播放' nowrap  onmouseover='document.Audible89123544843.Play()'>过来..近点...再近点...Kiss！</td></tr></table></p><br>
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<table width=100% bgcolor=#cccccc cellpadding=5 cellspacing=1 class=TBone><tr><td bgcolor=#f7f7f7 class=TBBG9><font color="blue"><b>我可以做些什么来保持孩子健康？</b></font><br>
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孩子是通过观察和模仿成人来学习的。<br>
如果你每次上车都扣上安全带，他们便会学到这些是安全措施。<br>
如果你刷牙，他们也会刷。<br>
如果你饭前先洗手，他们也会照做。<br>
如果你吃有营养的食品，他们就会要吃那些食品。<br>
如果你喜欢走路及运动，他们会觉得积极和活跃的生活是很有乐趣的。<br>
如果你遵守交通规则，他们也学会要小心。</td></tr></table><br>
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<table width=100% bgcolor=#cccccc cellpadding=5 cellspacing=1 class=TBone><tr><td bgcolor=#f7f7f7 class=TBBG9><font color="blue"><b>你是孩子内心世界的中心点，他们从观察你所作所为便学到很多事物。</b></font><br>
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● 帮助孩子活跃地生活<br>
● 给孩子一个完全没有香烟烟雾的家<br>
● 帮助孩子保持充足的睡眠<br>
● 帮助孩子保持清洁<br>
● 定期的身体检查<br>
● 确保孩子已接受防疫注射<br>
● 照顾孩子的牙齿健康<br>
● 帮助孩子保持健康的饮食</td></tr></table><br>
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<table width=100% bgcolor=#cccccc cellpadding=5 cellspacing=1 class=TBone><tr><td bgcolor=#f7f7f7 class=TBBG9><font color="blue"><b>父母的行为对孩子的影响</b></font><br>
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如果你经常批评你的孩子，他们会以为自己一无是处，而且会去挑剔别人。<br>
如果你称赞和鼓励你的孩子，他们会明白只要肯尝试，便可以做成一件事。<br>
如果你惊吓你的孩子或使他们害怕你，他们会变胆小，害怕及担心被别人伤害。<br>
如果你让孩子看到你生气和打架，他们也学会打架。如果孩子看到你们争吵，也应该让他看到你们和解。<br>
如果让你的孩子知道你需要和爱他们，孩子便学会去爱别人。</td></tr></table><br>
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icelemontea

谢谢<P><table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0><tr><td><OBJECT codeBase='<a target=_blank href=http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab>http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab</a>#version=4,0,2,0' classid='clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000' width='48' height='48' Id='Audible12093647206'><PARAM NAME=movie VALUE='../plug-ins/audio/swf/48.swf'><param name=menu value=false><PARAM NAME=quality VALUE=high><PARAM NAME=play VALUE=false><param name='wmode' value='transparent'><embed src='../plug-ins/audio/swf/48.swf' quality='high' pluginspage='<a target=_blank href=http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'>http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'</a> type='application/x-shockwave-flash' width='48' height='48'></embed></OBJECT></td><td align='left' style='cursor:hand;' title='鼠标悬停播放' nowrap  onmouseover='document.Audible12093647206.Play()'>起来动一动吧，follow me! one more, two more…</td></tr></table></p><P><table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0><tr><td><OBJECT codeBase='<a target=_blank href=http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab>http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab</a>#version=4,0,2,0' classid='clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000' width='48' height='48' Id='Audible19570547206'><PARAM NAME=movie VALUE='../plug-ins/audio/swf/51.swf'><param name=menu value=false><PARAM NAME=quality VALUE=high><PARAM NAME=play VALUE=false><param name='wmode' value='transparent'><embed src='../plug-ins/audio/swf/51.swf' quality='high' pluginspage='<a target=_blank href=http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'>http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'</a> type='application/x-shockwave-flash' width='48' height='48'></embed></OBJECT></td><td align='left' style='cursor:hand;' title='鼠标悬停播放' nowrap  onmouseover='document.Audible19570547206.Play()'>好想睡喔...zzz</td></tr></table></p>

Linlina

<table width=100% bgcolor=#cccccc cellpadding=5 cellspacing=1 class=TBone><tr><td bgcolor=#f7f7f7 class=TBBG9><b>下面引用由<u>sunnyday</u>发表的内容：</b><br>
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我可以做些什么来保持孩子健康？<br>
<br>
孩子是通过观察和模仿成人来学习的。<br>
如果你每次上车都扣上安全带，他们便会学到这些是安全措施。<br>
如果你刷牙，他们也会刷。<br>
如果你饭前先洗手，他们也会照...</td></tr></table><br>
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奶爸现在真的是该看孩子就看孩子了!以平和的心态在等待,向奶爸学习!

JACK

Applause!

Passerby

really a good one. thanks a lot, sunnyday!!!

whjohn

受教了，谢谢<P><table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0><tr><td><OBJECT codeBase='<a target=_blank href=http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab>http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab</a>#version=4,0,2,0' classid='clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000' width='48' height='48' Id='Audible39942360049'><PARAM NAME=movie VALUE='../plug-ins/audio/swf/07.swf'><param name=menu value=false><PARAM NAME=quality VALUE=high><PARAM NAME=play VALUE=false><param name='wmode' value='transparent'><embed src='../plug-ins/audio/swf/07.swf' quality='high' pluginspage='<a target=_blank href=http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'>http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'</a> type='application/x-shockwave-flash' width='48' height='48'></embed></OBJECT></td><td align='left' style='cursor:hand;' title='鼠标悬停播放' nowrap  onmouseover='document.Audible39942360049.Play()'>加油喔！</td></tr></table></p>

风飘飘

LG，很高兴能看到你的这些东西，终于你也了解你对儿子成长的重要性了。<br>
希望你能持之以恒，那么凯文就有一个非常优秀的爸爸了。<P><table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0><tr><td><OBJECT codeBase='<a target=_blank href=http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab>http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab</a>#version=4,0,2,0' classid='clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000' width='48' height='48' Id='Audible79387560620'><PARAM NAME=movie VALUE='../plug-ins/audio/swf/05.swf'><param name=menu value=false><PARAM NAME=quality VALUE=high><PARAM NAME=play VALUE=false><param name='wmode' value='transparent'><embed src='../plug-ins/audio/swf/05.swf' quality='high' pluginspage='<a target=_blank href=http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'>http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'</a> type='application/x-shockwave-flash' width='48' height='48'></embed></OBJECT></td><td align='left' style='cursor:hand;' title='鼠标悬停播放' nowrap  onmouseover='document.Audible79387560620.Play()'>一定要幸福喔！</td></tr></table></p>

icelemontea

copy 下来，传给老公看<P><table border=0 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0><tr><td><OBJECT codeBase='<a target=_blank href=http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab>http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab</a>#version=4,0,2,0' classid='clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000' width='48' height='48' Id='Audible9752639511'><PARAM NAME=movie VALUE='../plug-ins/audio/swf/10.swf'><param name=menu value=false><PARAM NAME=quality VALUE=high><PARAM NAME=play VALUE=false><param name='wmode' value='transparent'><embed src='../plug-ins/audio/swf/10.swf' quality='high' pluginspage='<a target=_blank href=http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'>http://www.macromedia.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash'</a> type='application/x-shockwave-flash' width='48' height='48'></embed></OBJECT></td><td align='left' style='cursor:hand;' title='鼠标悬停播放' nowrap  onmouseover='document.Audible9752639511.Play()'>真的好感激你啊</td></tr></table></p>

sunnyday

<table width=100% bgcolor=#cccccc cellpadding=5 cellspacing=1 class=TBone><tr><td bgcolor=#f7f7f7 class=TBBG9><font color="blue"><b>父母爱与溺爱</b></font><br>
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表达父母的爱与溺爱是不同的。孩子不会因你给与他们所需要的爱便被宠坏。<br>
婴儿在夜间哭是需要食物、爱护与安抚。迅速走到他身边并不是姑息他。<br>
孩子得不到想要的东西时，他们就发脾气来消除气恼。对他的要求让步会宠坏他。给他机会把怒气消除则不会。<br>
孩子不会因父母乐意给他们值得享有的奖励而被宠坏。<br>
当孩子能够逼使父母给与他们一些原不值得享有的奖赏时，他们便会宠坏。<br>
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宠坏了的孩子即使你给他们所想要的每一样东西，他们也不会快乐的。</td></tr></table>

Passerby

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zhangshilin

赞同

Bessy_liu

good,顶<br>
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sd000

很受教育，也很受启发！偶收藏，多看几遍。

Passerby

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lily001

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