| candle21 | 16th September 2008 11:26 PM |
now on topic , i currently am experiencing this for the first time everin my current work situation, this is unusual being a character thatadapts to most situations and understanding standing the method andinformation behind the DISC behavioral profiles .. i have learnt to adapt to most situations i face though |
I guess that's my problem... I think too much and always have too much to talk about and end up talking too much! Sorry! lol  |
oh get over it! its good dude! |
Where do you want me to start? Until I moved to Australia I was surrounded by conservative hard-core capitalists with religious tendencies. Now I get to pick & chose the people I associate with...:-) |
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I think too much too - and analyse everyone around me - and absorb a lot about a situation. If I'm not talking - I am simply taking it all in! |
 Oh and it's sometimes a bit isolating when you're the tallest person inthe room. Especially in clubs when you can't hear everyone talkingbelow you, haha. |
Ditto But I somehow find it comforting, you would too if you grew up in Blacktown |
anotha ditto!!! luckily most of my buddies feel th same way - so we're liek a bunch ofmisfits that all have that in common - tho i still feel liek a misfitamong a bunch of misfits at times - lolz!!!!  |
yep, that's totally me too! round peg in a square hole and all that. one might say, unique! I do! ;) I struggled for many years but now accept and am comfortable with who I am... so it's all good. mostly. |
double ditto! :cool: |
It means that I make my own rules - and dont need to behave in a certain way... |
I felt the same way growing up Marly! From school to social situations to anything really! It wasn't until college that I felt I fit in (a bit...). However, I'm fine with it now though (well sort of)... |
exactly |
For some reason I went through periods of really trying to fit in andthen once I felt accepted and that I was fitting in the challenge wasover so I'd ditch the people I'd srtived to fit in with. I kinda gotoff on being the freak during school. Being the first to have a nosepiercing and to wear a leather jacket to my school etc These days I like the mix of just blending into society as I trudge thedaily grind of work and love knowing I do things that others would killto do. I guess I'm just a chameleon at heart. |
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Right now, I feel out of place in some straight venues, always atweddings and christenings, and always at churches/religious places if Ihave to go. I also sometimes feel out of place in some gay venues or events, when I'm only there because of my camera. In all cases I just get on with it. |
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My work requires me to be very social and talk to everyone and getpeople talking to each other at events. It takes practice and morepractice and then it becomes almost second nature. There are plenty ofself-help books that teach you how to interact with people in socialgroups and become more cofident and carry a conversation with moreease. I'm guilty of verbal diarrhea as I feel really uncomfortable when no one is talking. So you aren't the only one! |
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Lets have a ****in partyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!! |
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)))) Bopping to Kylie remixes... oh how camp! |
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| DeepBlueDreamer | 17th September 2008 11:20 PM |
| Originally Posted by brodes13 (Post 48805) I always feel out of place. I think too much too - and analyse everyone around me - and absorb a lot about a situation. If I'm not talking - I am simply taking it all in! |
I'm so opposite to this, I love hanging with straights they get so curious and I find it hilarious. Tonight I took 8 of the kids from my college down to manacle, wasn'treally planning on them making me wear the cock socks thing so I wouldhave waxed/trimmed properly if I knew. But yeah I think people feed into your insecurities, if you don't havethem they don't pick up on them, that said my road to gay is alotdifferent from other people's when I finally worked it out it was sucha ****ing relief that nothing makes me feel strange except other queerswho try to tell me I knew I was gay all along. I don't know probably helps that I read X-men and Inhumans alot growingup so I have metaphorical positive role model templates for being anoutcast or aberrant to run of the mill homo sapiens or as we call themFlat Scans. as Mr Wagner says in X-men 2 "I pity them... because most people willnever believe anything more than what they see with their own two eyes" |
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really? you always look more comfortable than me... esp in speeedos lol but yes i can get quite paranoid and start making up what people thinkabout me in my little head of mine. or maybe im not really paranoid andits really happening - ok i gotta stop thinking...  |
Omg i love the xmen and so see the allegory. I am in love with WarrenWurthington the third (angel boy with wings), and i find therelationship interesting between him and Collosus (Peter). Following onfrom discussion i am often one of the only straights amongst gay boys,sometimes i feel out of place but ive come to love it. Its importanti'm more so a girl friend than a faghag, because then i feel like a'token asian faghag' as my friend jason once called me. |
| brodes13 | 19th September 2008 08:31 AM |
| Originally Posted by jal_goh (Post 49393) really? you always look more comfortable than me... esp in speeedos lol but yes i can get quite paranoid and start making up what people thinkabout me in my little head of mine. or maybe im not really paranoid andits really happening - ok i gotta stop thinking... |
sometimes， yeh。。。
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