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Compared with most of TZ in freeOZ, my experience is really painful. It has been 5 years since I have the inspiration of immigration to OZ. I may be one who have worst worst worst luck in this road and I have even taken it for granted that it is one of sign that I do not belong to OZ.
Although I have quit and given in many times, but I have been controlling by this mission in past more than 1800 days. It is never an easy path for me, I really thank for my best friend Na's continuous encouragement that supports me to stand up again and again. Looking back my 5 years, I should have saved much more time and aviod much more zigzag if I know freeOZ earlier, which is for sure a good guide for the people in darkness. Fortunately, I know it now, I get a lot of useful information and I really thank for so many helpful hands. I am not alone, I am one of freeOZ. Let you, everyone witness until I succeed.
2002.12 take IELTS (6 6 5 6) -- I should not take it before I send out course assessment, suggest visit freeOZ
2002.12 - 2004.6 -- Change company, quit the idear to OZ -- Once choose do not quit easily
2004.06 thinks of it again, prepare course assessment myself -- time-consuming and uncertain quality, suggest agent profession
2005.12 send out course assessment
2006.02 rejection letter from OZ assessment office
2006.04 re-assessment in same org. -- actually, many change to another org
2006.06 re-assessment fail
2006.06-2007.12 give up -- again, need sufficient psychological preparation for attack
2007.02 send out course assessment to another org
2007.05 informed me they need VET -- I should have read every detail information to meet requirement, if busy work, suggest agent
2007.06 VET
2007.07 Assessment letter lost -- ensure letter in English can be identified by zone post office and send to correct address
2007.08 Assessment approval finally launched
2007.09 Immigration policy changed, IELTS need four 6
2007.09 ITLES fail (5 5 5 6.5) -- Should prepare at least one month
2007.10 ITLES fail (7 7 5.5 6) -- loss 5 age points
2007.11 IELTS writing re-assessment -- success re-assessment case if seldome
2007.12 IELTS writing re-assessment fail
2008.01 ITLES fail (7 7 5.5 6) -- my writing is not good
2008.02 give up -- I am dicey
2008.03 ITLES pass (7 6 6 6.5) -- last straw
2008.04 E175 TRN -- thanks freeOZ's detail information to help me successfully submit
说心里话，我并不太想回忆这一切，即使是和家人也很少提及。因为那种挫折，绝望，丧失信心的痛，对自己的认命，都好像一场停不了的噩梦。对于我来说，多次的放弃，多次的开始，每一跌每一起都是痛！痛！痛！可能我真的是一个脆弱的人，所以上天要多点打击给我。娜娜说如果你连这末一点打击都承受不了，还是别想着来OZ了。她真是个坚强有主见的女孩子，我差她太多了。
我现在进入等待大军,我对自己的前途并无多大信心,因为碰到太多应该或不应该的境遇,我也不敢信心百倍,胸有成竹,有时候我还是会想,命该如是。但是如果我这坎坷之路能为大家做出些许贡献，我也算能回报freeOZ。我列的纪实表里有我自己的对某些事情的后悔，希望能有些帮助。
奉劝大家也是总结自己：
* 做了就不要放弃，尤其是自己这样几度放弃，造成的是更大的心理煎熬。如果真的工作忙家里事情多不能DIY, 就找个负责点的中介会好很多，因为DIY代表你要花很多时间精力读懂移民网站，评估机构的要求，每一步都计算的精确万无一失，否则只能花费大量时间和更多的金钱去弥补去后悔。最要命的是年龄过了门槛降分，移民政策更改，如雅思我一度攻克不了的写作6
* 尽量开朗乐观平和地对待这一切。我性格使然，拿不起又放不下，反反复复，怎莫都是痛，这样性格的人，难以享受过程的快乐。比如在失败的时候，黯然神伤，比如在终于得到评估通过雅思通过时候，又开始担忧自己的下一步。所以对于我来说，磨练似乎成为一种必需。性格决定命运，我一定要坚强起来，坚定地走下去。
* 找到同mission的伙伴，以他人的经验经历为借鉴指导自己的征途。多跟人家交流会少走很多弯路。群体的力量是强大的，那些鼓励、祝福、支持和一双双友爱、团结、无私的手都访如冥冥黑夜里的烛火，温暖而持久。
总觉得“围城“的矛盾处处皆是，也许应该开朗地给生活一条生路，成了，败了，都是一种生活的体验。最重要的还是珍惜眼前的生活，过好每一天。有一个中介说递了申请就当没有那一回事，该结婚结婚，该生孩子生孩子。也许是他看到太多人为了移民拖延耽误自己本来的人生时刻表，有感而发的。
[ 本帖最后由 郭铭媚 于 15-5-2008 14:31 编辑 ] |
发表于 16-4-2008 14:00:01
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